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Building Resilience: Why Inner Scaffolding Matters
When a building is under construction, workers often erect scaffolding around it. The scaffolding provides structure, support, and stability while the building takes shape. It helps the building withstand pressure during the construction process and creates a framework that allows growth to happen safely. I often think about resilience in much the same way. Many people come to therapy because they are facing adversity: a relationship ending, a traumatic experience, burnout, g
Alison Sharp
2 days ago4 min read


“It's Not Okay to Be Me": How Chronic Invalidation Can Shape the LGBTQ+ Nervous System
When people think about trauma, they often imagine a single overwhelming event: an accident, an assault, a natural disaster, or another experience that threatens a person's safety. These experiences can absolutely be traumatic. But trauma can also develop in a different way. Sometimes trauma is not the result of one major event. Instead, it emerges from repeated experiences of being dismissed, rejected, misunderstood, devalued, or told—directly or indirectly—that who you are
Alison Sharp
Jul 134 min read


Understanding Perfectionism: The Emotional Roots Behind High Standards
Perfectionism is often praised as ambition or high achievement, but underneath perfectionism is frequently fear: fear of failure, criticism, shame, or not being enough. For many people, perfectionism is not simply about doing well. It becomes a way of staying safe, avoiding emotional pain, or protecting self-worth. Understanding these deeper emotional roots can help explain why perfectionism feels so difficult to let go of — and why healing involves more than simply lowering
Alison Sharp
Jun 44 min read


The Power of Compassion in Healing our Inner Child
Learn how unhealed childhood wounds live on inside us — and how curiosity and self-compassion can help you begin to heal from the inside out.
Alison Sharp
May 44 min read


Is EMDR Therapy Right For Me?
Learn what EMDR therapy is, how it works, and how it differs from talk therapy and CBT. Discover the conditions it can treat, who it’s for, and the benefits and risks of this trauma-focused approach.
Alison Sharp
Apr 44 min read

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